Strategy 1: Stop worrying about what people think about you

You can’t go by what others say about you; you must know for yourself. God is well aware of His majesty and might. He is the absolute God, the pinnacle of perfection, and He doesn’t need us to tell Him that. He is the beginning and the end, the beginning and the end. People may comment about or identify you based on your circumstances, but your true identity is found in God. Stop asking folks who aren’t in control of their emotions to help you with your life or a problem.

When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say the Son of Man is?” They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” Matthew 16:13-16 NLT

Concentrate on the question, “Who do people think I am?”

God was not asking because He didn’t know who He was, neither did He need them to justify it.

• God was curious as to where their hearts were at.
• Where did their faith come from?
• Peter was releasing faith in his heart with His mouth.

Examine yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, “Who am I?”

Strategy 2: Empowering Others

Helping others realize their potential can significantly boost your own confidence. Whether it’s mentoring a colleague, supporting a friend’s project, or volunteering your skills, seeing the positive impact you can have in someone’s life reinforces your self-worth and abilities.

Strategy 3: Active Listening

Active listening is a powerful tool in building strong relationships. By genuinely engaging with others and giving them your full attention, you not only make them feel valued but also gain insights and perspectives that can boost your confidence in social situations.

Strategy 4: Forgiveness

Let go of the situation, experience God’s faithfulness, and cease giving people your authority. Things happen in life that make us feel vulnerable and unsure, and this is a part of developing confidence. It will pursue you until you decide to forgive. Forgiveness is a healing secret weapon; when you forgive, you accomplish something spiritually that you can’t see.

If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just [true to His nature and promises]. He will forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness [our wrongdoing, everything not conforming with His will and purpose].1 John 1:9 AMP

Let go of the situation, experience God’s faithfulness, and cease giving people your authority. Things happen in life that make us feel vulnerable and unsure, and this is a part of developing confidence. It will pursue you until you decide to forgive. Forgiveness is a healing secret weapon; when you forgive, you accomplish something spiritually that you can’t see.

If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just [true to His nature and promises]. He will forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness [our wrongdoing, everything not conforming with His will and purpose].1 John 1:9 AMP

Strategy 5: Take pride in your accomplishments.

Allow yourself to savor the moment. Pay attention to the minor details. Appreciate the factors that contributed to your success. It’s all too easy to overlook the importance of celebrating. This is something I’m all too familiar with. I’m pleased with the result but eager to move on to the next task. For example, when I wrote my book, I was grateful for the opportunity and enthusiastic for the next one. It’s not incorrect to desire to achieve another objective. Still, if we don’t take a break and reflect, we’ll find ourselves in the attitude of doing rather than fulfilling the destiny that was created to keep us.